Books & Articles


As part of my practice's value of wholeness, I often recommend additional resources to review on your own that will support the work we are doing in therapy.

For Couples

  • The Five Love Languages; Dr. Gary Chapman
  • Hold Me Tight:  Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, Dr. Sue Johnson
  • Love and Respect:  The Love she Most Desires, the Respect he Desperately Needs; Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • The Sacred Search:  What if it's Not about Who You Marry, But Why?; Gary L. Thomas (for pre-married couples)
  • Sacred Marriage, Gary L. Thomas
  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work; Dr. John Gottman and Nan Silver
  • When Sorry Isn't Enough:  Making Things Right with Those You Love; Dr. Gary Chapman & Jennifer Thomas
  • You and Me Forever:  Marriage in Light of Eternity; Francis Chan and Lisa Chan

For Parents

  • Brainstorm:  The Teenage Brain from the Inside Out; Dr. Dan Siegel
  • The Five Love Languages of Children; Dr. Gary Chapman & Dr. Ross Campbell
  • Hold on to Your Kids:  Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers; Dr. Gordon Neufeld & Dr. Gabor Mate
  • How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk; Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
  • Mom's House, Dad's House:  Making Two Homes for Your Child; Isolina Ricci, Ph.D.
  • Parenting from the Inside Out:  How a Deeper Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive; Dr. Dan Siegel & Mary Hartzell
  • Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child:  The Heart of Parenting; Dr. John Gotten
  • The Whole-Brain Child:  12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind; Dr. Dan Siegel & Dr. Tina Payne Bryson

For Kids & Teens

  • Dinosaurs Divorce:  A Guide for Changing Families; Laurie Krasney Brown & Marc Brown
  • Divorce is Not the End of the World:  Zoe and Evan's Coping Guide for Kids; Zoe & Evan Stern
  • The Hurt; Teddi Doleski
  • In My Heart:  A Book of Feelings; Jo Witek
  • A Terrible Thing Happened; Margaret Holmes
  • When Mom and Dad Separate:  Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief From Divorce; Marge Heegaard

For Personal Growth

  • Boundaries:  When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life; Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
  • The Gift of Being Yourself:  The Sacred Call to Self-Discovery; David Benner
  • The Gifts of Imperfection; Brene Brown
  • Safe People:  How to Find Relationships That Are Good For You and Avoid Those That Aren't; Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

For Helping Professionals

  •  Raising Parents:  Attachment, Representation, and Treatment; Patricia McKinsey Crittenden
  • The Body Keeps the Score:  Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma; Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.
  • The Wounded Healer:  Ministry in Contemporary Society; Henri J.M. Nouwen
  • Twelve Months to Your Ideal Private Practice:  A Workbook; Lynn Grodzki
  • Windows to Our Children; Violet Oaklander, Ph.D.

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In the neighborhood...

 Nourish:  Essential + Intentional Gatherings for Women

Holiday Workshop at  HATCHED Collective

Thursday, November 29th, 6:30-8:30pm

 

Join us for an evening of Sacred Wreath Making.  Take time away from the crazy to get in touch with your real intentions for the holidays, and create a gorgeous holiday wreath to serve as a touchstone for those intentions.  Enjoy cozy refreshments and craft alongside a wonderful group of women.  Sign up today!


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Alair Olson, M.A.

 Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

(MFC#86504)

 

South Mission Valley | San Diego, CA  92108

858.634.0302 | therapy@alairolson.com